Blogtober Day 3: Entering My Villain Era

It’s October 3rd. You know what that means? Happy Mean Girls Day. It’s also Blogtober day three. Look at me, dropping a brand-new blog post during what many people would call my villain era, since I’m an Aries. I was thinking about what I wanted to write about for day three. I wanted something that ties in with Mean Girls Day. And well, it hit me. Last year I made a post for Mean Girls Day. The blog post was about how I envisioned a Burn Book if I were to create one.

In case you need a refresher, I would name it Stars & Scribbles. I explained what I want it to look like and what I would include in it. I figured this year I would do the same thing here, but this time go into detail on something my Burn Book would include. However, instead of anything that was on the list last year, I’ll be including something that I’ve been toying with the thought of, due to being in my chaos, unhinged, and villain era. Yes, all three of those.

Below will be things that have been, are, and would be the cause of being in my villain era at any time in my life.

Being An Aries

Independent, blunt, and impatient. And that’s only a few things to explain what an Aries can be like. If anything would cause me to be in my villain era, it’s being an Aries.

Many people don’t care for astrology, let alone know about it and that’s fine. However, I’m someone who loves learning about the different zodiac signs and things along those lines. I love being an Aries among other things I am because a lot of traits for Aries’ describe 100% describe me and then some.

Not Having Enough Time

Because I WISH I HAD MORE TIME. Sorry for yelling, but it’s the truth. I’m so tired on the weekend and don’t want to do anything before or after I get from work. Then on days I don’t work, I’m sleeping in, catching up on my writing, catching up on my shows, and everything in between. Even then, I’m still wanting much more than all of that combined. Why aren’t there more hours in a day? Why not be in my villain era because of it?

Annoying Sounds I Hear Everyday

There are so many sounds in this world that annoy me every single day. I become one of the worst people ever when I hear any sounds that annoying the hell out of me because why are you trying to piss me off by making the sounds? I’ve truly glared and side eyed so many people at work and other places when they would make sounds that annoy me.

I’m Over With Explaining Myself

I feel like this is self-explanatory. Instead of explaining myself constantly about how I am, about things that people can easily Google, etc, why not claim my villain arc?

I’m Tired Of Being Overlooked

I’ve been overlooked countless of times. I’ve been overlooked when it comes to people I know, with my writing, with my pretty much a little of everything at some point in my life. I can understand why some people become villains.

Dark Pop Music Gets Me

It really does get me. Dark pop music is dark, edgy, relatable, goes against the “rules,” and moody. I love all of those elements combined. The genre makes me feel alive and helps me want to unleash my inner villain.

Best Friend Breakup

Truly, I don’t even want to get into this here, but I will say, I definitely channeled my villain era back when I was dealing with a best friend breakup.

SkyDxddy’s “Darkside” Told Me To

Okay, obviously she didn’t tell me to do that. However, her song “Darkside” spoke volumes to me. I feel like she wasn’t just talking to herself but she was talking to her fans who could relate to the kind of person she is.”I am the voice inside you that knows exactly what you’re worth, I’m that ‘fuck off bitch’ energy that you need to put first.” Those lyrics resonate so much on a different level. I need the lyrics embedded in my brain. It’s a reminder that I am that bitch and I deserve to do a 360 if I want.

My Definition of A Villain Era

Everyone has different definitions of a “villain era.” When I think about it, I would have to say being in my villain era means making myself feeling seen and heard while being unapologetically me. It means not biting my tongue for no one. It means finding myself and staying true to myself. It means simply being the unique, chaotic, and cozy person I am.

These are the reasons I would enter or have entered my villain era. If you can relate feel free to leave a comment below. Feel free to also share a reason or a few that would cause you to enter your villain era.

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